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10 RELATIONSHIP PRINCIPLES

RELATIONSHIP PRINCIPLE 1

In romance, there’s nothing more attractive to a man than a woman who has dignity and pride in who she is.

RELATIONSHIP PRINCIPLE 2

He marries the woman who won’t lay down like linoleum

RELATIONSHIP PRINCIPLE  3

He doesntt marry a woman who’s perfest. he marries the woman who is interesting

RELATIONSHIP PRINCIPLE 4

When a woman is trying too hard, a man will usually test to see how hard she’s willing to work for it. He’ll start throwing relationship Frisbees, just to see how hard She’ll run and how high she’ll jump.

RELATIONSHIP PRINCIPLE 5

Don’t beleiev what anyone tells you about your self.

RELATIONSHIP PRINCILPE  6

Men see how you dress and then make assumptions about your relationship potential

RELATIONSHIP PRINCIPLE  7

When a man sees you wearing very revealing clothes, he’ll usually assume you don’t have anything else going for you.

RELATIONSHIP PRINCIPLE 8

When he sees you scantily dressed, he’s not reminded of how great you look naked. he immediately thinks of all the other man you’ve  slept with.

RELATIONSHIP PRINCIPLE 9

Every guy knows he can find a girl who is simply satisfied with satisfying him. They are much more turned on by a woman who cares about her own pleasure as well.

RELATIONSHIP PRINCIPLE 10

You can tell how much someone respects you by how much he respects your opinion. If he doesn’t respect your opinion, he won’t respect you.

SOURCE:

WHY MEN MARRY BITCHES; A WOMAN’S GUIDE TO WINNING HER MAN’S HEART

SHERRY ARGOV

 

COMMUNICATION GLOSSARY

Analogy - Likening one thing to another for the purpose of example.

Bandwagon appeals - Appeals in which audiences are urged to support a cause, purchase a product, engage in certain behavior, or “jump on the bandwagon” because everybody else is doing so. (Example: A commercial urges children to buy particular toys because all of the children have one.)

Cause and effect organizational pattern – Expository or persuasive speech arrangement that begins with the reasons why or circumstances under which something happens (causes) and then attempts to establish probable consequences or results (effects).

Deductive organizational pattern – Speech arrangement that begins with the statement of the point or points in the introduction, then develops and supports the points, one by one, in the body of the speech.

Definition - Explains a point, concept, or thing by stating what something means. The definition may be taken from a dictionary (literal/denotative meaning), may come from common understanding (connotative meaning), or speakers may create their own meanings.

Description – Provides details about an object, scene, person, process, etc., to help the listener create a visual image. The details are often sensory, appealing to sight, touch, hearing, smell, or taste. A single, overall impression is usually created. Used to provide supportive/elaborative details for exposition, persuasion, and narration.

Explanation – Explains and clarifies the nature and purpose of the main points of a speech. Two effective ways to explain are by definition and analogy.

Expository speech - The purpose of an expository speech is to inform. This can include speeches to explain, instruct, or demonstrate. It may include the use of narrative or descriptive elements as support. In an expository speech, main points and sub-points constitute the main divisions of the basic idea to be developed. Supporting material gives the message substance. It clarifies, amplifies, and develops ideas.

Frame of reference – Perspective or point-of-view of individuals that serves as a lens through which they may analyze and interpret media. Life experiences (e.g., gender, family background, socioeconomic status, education level, political leanings, career, regional/geographic affiliation, religious affiliation) contribute to the frame of reference.

Glittering generality appeal - Appeals in which attempts are made to persuade audiences through faulty generalization. Because there is usually some element of truth in the generalization, audiences often accept it. A glittering generalization is based almost entirely upon preconceptions instead of fact, and is often characterized by provocative (i.e., glittering), general language designed to hide real issues. (Example: A news report of an abortion clinic bombing shows film clips from an example of Middle East terrorist attack to characterize the current event as “another act of terrorism.”)

Group norms - Beliefs and values commonly held by group members which provide the basis for the rules and appropriate behavior for interaction within the group. These norms can be spoken or unspoken, explicit, or implicit.

Group roles – These are sets of behaviors (roles) a person typically engages in while participating in a group. The two general categories of group roles are task and maintenance. Examples of task roles include initiator, information seeker, information giver, opinion giver, evaluator/critic. Examples of maintenance roles include encourager, harmonizer, mediator, compromiser.

Impromptu method of speaking - Involves speaking without specific preparation. This method is used when speakers are called upon without prior notice.

Inductive organizational pattern - Speech arrangement that begins with the details and an examination of them. A conclusion is drawn from the details, and the revelation of the point of the speech comes at the end as a climax.

Listening strategies (techniques for effective listening) - These include: concentrate (have an open attitude and an interest), understand what to listen for (determine the speaker’s purpose, main ideas, support), listen critically (relate the message to own experience, analyze the message, evaluate the message), and use graphic organizers (note taking, webbing, charting, etc.) when appropriate.

Manuscript method of speaking – Involves writing out the speech and reading it. This method is commonplace among heads of state and business officials, for example, when precise wording is essential and there could be serious consequences for any word “misspoken.” For novice speakers, this method may be the easiest and safest; training in planned/extemporaneous speaking may be more valuable.

Mass media - Refers to the particular type of medium in which the same message can be presented simultaneously to multiple audiences in different locations. Examples include radio, television, Internet, film, video, newspaper.

Mass media appeals - These are techniques used in mass media to persuade listeners or viewers to develop a particular attitude or to purchase a product or service. Some of the techniques are ethical; others are questionable and involve fallacious reasoning. Some mass media appeals may be referred to as propaganda techniques. Selected examples include bandwagon appeals, testimonial appeals, and glittering generalization appeals. These techniques may be found in the print medium as well as in the visual and aural media.

Media - The broad array of channels through which communication occurs. Examples include the spoken word in a conversation or speech; the written word in a letter or newspaper; a broadcast message over radio or television; an electronic (e-mail) message.

Media text – Any example of communication in a medium. A photograph is a text and so is print on a T-shirt. A campaign button worn on a lapel is just as much a text as a newspaper editorial. A billboard on the highway is a text and so is a video clip. The use of the word text is not restricted to the printed word.

Narrative - Relates/narrates/tells a story to stimulate interest, persuade, or explain a point or concept. The story can be real (from life), fictional (from literature), or hypothetical (created by the speaker). A narrative can be brief or elaborated.

Non-verbal cues - Purposeful or involuntary communication made with one’s body. Examples include stance, gestures, eye movement, hand and/or arm placement, facial expression, etc.

Persuasive speech – The purpose of a persuasive speech is to gain assent, change attitudes, or move listeners to action. It may include the use of narrative or descriptive elements as support. In a persuasive speech, supporting material serves to prove the main point and sub-points.

Planned (or extemporaneous) method of speaking – Involves speaking from a prepared outline, but with the speaker choosing the wording and phrasing as she or he is talking. The message is prepared in advance, with predetermined purpose, main and sub points, explanation and reasoning, and supporting material. Extemporaneous speaking, despite the Latin derivation of the term, does not mean speaking without preparation. Usage has changed the meaning. Speaking without preparation is termed impromptu.

Problem and solution organizational pattern - An expository or persuasive speech arrangement in which a problem is examined and a solution is developed and/or advocated.

Recitation or memory method of speaking - Involves writing out a speech in full, committing it to memory, and delivering it. This method is less common today than during earlier periods in history.

Social conventions - Customary verbal and non-verbal actions which constitute polite discourse. Examples include please, thank you, excuse me, may I introduce, etc.

Testimonial appeals – Appeals in which audiences are urged to support a cause, purchase a product, or engage in certain behavior because a celebrity figure is doing so. Audiences need to consider whether the celebrity figure has qualifications that are relevant to the persuasive effort. (Example: A sports figure urges viewers to purchase a particular cereal because he/she eats it.)

 

Mengenal Jenis Sepatu

Sepatu-info

Sepatu tidak hanya berfungsi sebagai alas kaki, tetapi juga telah menjadi bagian dari penampilan seseorang. Untuk sepatu wanita, model
sepatu yang dijual ada berbagai macam. Informasi berikut dapat
berguna untuk menambah pengetahuan tentang apa saja model alas kaki yang ada.

Beragam sepatu wanita yang ada yaitu Open Toe Shoes, Pump Shoes, Sling Back Shoes, Wedge Heel, Kitten Heel, Stiletto, Selop, Boots dan Sports. Anda ingin tahu apa saja perbedaan jenis sepatu ini?

Open Toe Shoes

Seperti namanya, ujung sepatu ini terbuka sehingga jari kaki seperti ibu jari dan jari telunjuk terlihat. Bagian belakang pada umumnya tertutup, sehingga baik digunakan pada acara formal atau informal. Keuntungan menggunakan sepatu ini adalah kaki tidak berkeringat sehingga lebih nyaman.

Pump Shoes

Pump shoes mengartikan sepatu labu. Disebut demikian, karena ujung sepatu ini menyerupai buah labu, berbentuk setengah bundar. Sepatu jenis ini cocok bila dikombinasikan dengan rok mini.
Sling Back Shoes

Jenis ini dicirikan dengan adanya tali yang melilit di pergelangan kaki. Sering juga disebut sepatu sandal. Cocok digunakan dengan rok model A-line sehingga dapat memberi kesan feminim pada penampilan anda.

Wedge Heel

Sepatu ini dapat diperuntukkan bagi anda yang merasa tidak nyaman dengan sepatu berhak kecil. Wedge Heel memaksudkan jenis sepatu dengan hak yang mempunyai ukuran yang sama dari depan sampai belakang dan menyatu dengan sol sepatu. Hak sepatu ini tidak mudah patah dan cocok bagi anda yang memiliki berat badan lebih.
Kitten Heel

Maksud sepatu ini adalah sepatu dengan hak rendah. Lebih cocok bila digunakan dalam acara-acara kasual.

Stiletto

Dengan bagian depan yang runcing dan hak yang tinggi runcing, sepatu ini cocok bila anda menggunakan gaun dalam acara pesta karena dapat menimbulkan kesan feminim dan seksi.

Selop

Disebut juga dengan slipper. Selop dengan bagian belakang terbuka dan menyerupai sandal ini dapat digunakan bila anda ingin tampil santai tetapi ingin tetap berkesan sopan.
Boots

Sepatu yang tertutup keseluruhan. Boots ada yang hanya sampai pergelangan kaki, sampai setengah betis dan ada yang sampai selutut. Seperti koboi, sepatu ini sangat cocok bila digunakan dengan jeans.

Sports

Sering disebut dengan sepatu kets. Sepatu yang biasa digunakan saat berolahraga.

 

Mandi dengan Shower Mempercantik Wajah

Ternyata, ada banyak manfaat mandi dengan menggunakan shower. Pertama, itu menunjukkan kepedulian kita terhadap lingkungan dengan memanfaatkan air secara maksimal. Karena penggunaan air dengan shower saat mandi jauh lebih hemat daripada kita menggunakan gayung.

Manfaat kedua, adalah untuk kecantikan kulit kita. Mengapa? Karena dengan menggunakan air kita dapat memperoleh lebih banyak ion negatif yang bermanfaat bagi kulit kita. Dalam udara bebas, sebenarnya ada ion negatif dan positif yang bersatu. Dengan adanya semprotan air, maka ion negatif dan ion positif terpecah. Ion positif yang lebih berat, membuat ion ini cepat jatuh sedangkan ion negatif dapat melayang di udara. Itulah sebabnya kita merasa lebih nyaman dan segar saat berada di dekat air terjun atau saat menghirup udara setelah hujan karena ada banyaknya ion negatif di udara.

Dalam suatu percobaan, jumlah ion negatif meningkat 10 kali lipat setelah digunakan shower selama 5 menit dan terus bertambah dengan semakin lamanya penggunaan shower. Tetapi harus diingat, bahwa uap panas justru dapat meningkatkan ion positif, maka bila kita mandi hendaknya menggunakan fan atau membuka jendela sehingga terjadi pertukaran udara.

Penggunaan shower juga dapat memberi pijatan pada wajah kita sehingga wajah kita dapat bernapas dengan lebih baik. Maka agar mendapatkan efek yang baik, hendaknya shower tidak digunakan secara tegak lurus, tetapi dengan kemiringan sekitar 60 derajat.

Jadi, tidak ada salahnya mencoba menggunakan shower saat mandi sebagai terapi untuk wajah kita juga sebagai pernyataan kepedulian kita terhadap lingkungan.

 

tu..wa..tu..wa..mari kita perangi lemak

tu..wa..tu..wa..mari kita perangi lemak

Olahraga memberikan manfaat yang sangat banyak bagi tubuh kita. Untuk sehat, kegiatan olahraga menjadi hal wajib yang harus dilakukan.
Olahraga juga sering dilakukan untuk menurunkan berat badan. Yang tak kalah penting, olahraga juga bermanfaat untuk kecantikan. Dampak positif olahraga akan terlihat pada kulit Anda. Kulit yang sehat dan segar tentu akan menambah kecantikan.

Kesehatan dan kecantikan kulit merupakan dambaan setiap wanita. Berbagai produk kecantikan digunakan agar membuat kulit sehat, cantik dan mulus. Beberapa wanita menyiasati keindahan kulitnya agar terlihat muda dengan menggunakan make up. Selain itu, pola makan sehat juga turut menunjang keindahan dan kesehatan kulit. Ada juga yang menggunakan cara-cara tradisional untuk keindahan dan kecantikan kulit, seperti menggunakan coklat ataupun strawberry. Namun dari berbagai cara dan metode untuk mempercantik kulit, jangan lupa berolahraga. Apa saja manfaat olahraga untuk kulit Anda?

a. Membantu mengeluarkan racun dan radikal bebas dari dalam tubuh
Asap rokok, polusi udara atau bahan kimia pada produk kecantikan berdampak buruk pada kulit kita. Radikal bebas akibat hal tersebut merusak kulit sehingga dapat menyebabkan keriput atau flek. Dengan berolahraga, racun yang ada dalam tubuh kita dapat dikeluarkan. Sirkulasi darah yang baik menyebabkan distribusi nutrisi untuk kulit diserap maksimal dan membantu mengeluarkan racun yang ada di kulit.

b.Merangsang produksi kolagen
Kolagen adalah zat pengisi sel kulit yang membuat kulit menjadi kenyal dan kencang. Seiring bertambahnya usia, produksi kolagen semakin menurun dan berkurang yang mengakibatkan kulit menjadi kering dan berkerut. Produksi kolagen dapat dipacu dengan melakukan olahraga rutin karena sel kulit akan mendapatkan oksigen dan distribusi nutrisi yang baik sehingga kulit akan bersinar dan lentur.

c. Mencegah timbulnya jerawat
Hal ini karena olahraga membantu mengontrol produksi hormon DHEA dan DHT yang memicu timbulnya jerawat. Penyebab lain jerawat adalah karena stres. Saat stres akan diproduksi hormon yang juga memicu jerawat. Tetapi, hasil penelitian membuktikan bahwa kebanyakan stres akan berkurang bila Anda berolahraga teratur sehingga jerawat tidak akan muncul.

d. Mengurangi selulit
Selulit terjadi akibat jalinan fibroblast tertarik dan membentuk kantung lemak. Selulit umumnya ada di bokong, paha belakang atau lengan dan membuat kulit menyerupai kulit jeruk. Kehadiran selulit akan mengganggu penampilan Anda. Saat berolahraga, tubuh mengalami proses pembentukan dan peregangan otot sehingga selulit yang ada dapat dihilangkan.

Setelah mengetahui bahwa olahraga juga bermanfaat untuk kecantikan, maka tidak ada alasan untuk tidak berolahraga hari ini bukan?

Note:
Men sana in corporesano lho…!

 
 
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